Seen from the admittedly biased vantage point of the absolute lifestyle, BDSM as a whole has depreciated remarkably over the past twenty or thirty years! It would seem that the downward spiral has finally hit rock bottom, not with a resounding crash, but with a soft, apologetic and nearly inaudible “Thud”. To hear the “Experts” talk about it these days, one is left with the distinct impression that BDSM is either a sexuality or a mental illness. What the mainstream claims about itself is, on the face of it at least, their own business. However, it rubs off unfavourably on the rest of us, and that makes it ours, too.
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Bondage can be one of the most delightful, sensual parts of BDSM, but it can also be one of the most dangerous forms, with improper preparation and technique. Bondage enthusiasts enjoy various types of bondage, often using simple household items (rope, silk ties, etc.) and often employing intricate, or purchased equipment and supplies (St. Andrew’s crosses, bondage boards, police-style handcuffs and shackles, to mention a few). Read the rest of this post…

I Have Spent a Great Deal of Time Recently Thinking About BDSM! What causes someone to get involved in BDSM? For some people it is a mental or psychological need, for others it is physical in nature. They answer to the “Why” varies for everyone. Read the rest of this post…

During our drink upstairs together Mistress C happened to come back up from the dungeon and we introduced, hugged, and kissed each other. It was quite a sight, she had on sexy red stockings and red leather high boots, a black garter and black lace suspender belt, with a black pvc halter top. She looked uhm fully in control and horny, and it was a strange feeling to hold and kiss her as we were still fully dressed in our normal clothing!

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