Nowhere But in BDSM is Quite so Much Personal Opinion Passed off as Irrefutable Fact! That is perhaps not very strange in a lifestyle that is characterized by having no recognized authorities, just sensible guidelines, and no universally defined standards, only gut feelings. Many people are after all vaguely disturbed by anything that doesn’t fit neatly into a box or onto a chart. Because of this lack of uniform definitions, no approach to the lifestyle has been more misunderstood – indeed often deliberately maligned – than the absolute lifestyle. In the absence of any attempt to define it, over-active imaginations have had a field day, as much to the detriment of lifestyle D/s at large, as to the embarrassment of those who have succeeded only in demonstrating their own narrow-mindedness.
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During our drink upstairs together Mistress C happened to come back up from the dungeon and we introduced, hugged, and kissed each other. It was quite a sight, she had on sexy red stockings and red leather high boots, a black garter and black lace suspender belt, with a black pvc halter top. She looked uhm fully in control and horny, and it was a strange feeling to hold and kiss her as we were still fully dressed in our normal clothing!

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